Every person should, while he is healthy, consult
with the Rector concerning his own burial. Specific directions
concerning various options in the service can be written down and
filed in the church office, and are a tremendous help to the
clergy, not to mention a great comfort to the deceased's next
of kin.
Death is the Christian's final act of life in this world,
and it is the occasion of the Church's last ministration to
its members. Therefore, the clergy should be notified immediately,
along with the next of kin, in the case of death or impending
death.
The clergy should always be contacted before the funeral
director is called.
The order of the Burial of the Dead may be read in the Church
Proper, or at graveside. Services in funeral parlor chapels are
inappropriate for churchmen. These chapels are provided to meet the
needs of people who do not have their own church from which to be
buried.
The congregation is encouraged to have funeral visitations in
the chapel, where the body may "lie in state" until the
service hour.
The use of flowers in the church at a funeral is under the
direction of the parish Altar Guild. A funeral pall is owned by All
Saints' and, while the body of the deceased is in the church
building, the casket shall be covered with this pall. The parish
also owns a pall to be used to cover cremain urns and boxes.
The same rules apply to music at funerals as to music at
weddings.
The Christian dead should be buried with as much dignity as
possible. The celebration of Holy Communion, as part of the
services of the Dead, is one of the oldest customs of the church.
In fact, the Requiem Mass is the most ancient and distinctively
Christian funeral custom, and is a great source of comfort and
spiritual strength the bereaved. Holy Communion may be celebrated
at the time of the reading of the Burial Office or some other time,
for example in the morning before the funeral. The latter procedure
is recommended, if many people are expected to attend the funeral
who are not familiar with Episcopal worship. It is perfectly
appropriate to have the interment portion of the service at the
cemetery or memorial garden before the service in the church.